Compassion-Focused Therapy

What is CFT? CFT is based on the understanding that many emotional difficulties stem from having an overly harsh inner critic and lacking self-compassion. This approach helps you develop a kinder, more supportive relationship with yourself, which can dramatically reduce shame, anxiety, and depression.

How CFT Works:

  • Learn about the three emotion systems: threat, drive, and soothing

  • Understand how an overactive threat system creates suffering

  • Develop skills to activate your soothing system

  • Practice compassionate imagery and self-talk

  • Learn breathing and mindfulness techniques

  • Build a compassionate inner voice to counteract self-criticism

  • Explore barriers to self-compassion and work through them

Key CFT Techniques:

  • Compassionate breathing and mindfulness

  • Developing your "compassionate self" image

  • Writing compassionate letters to yourself

  • Using the "Loving Llama" voice instead of the "Poisoned Parrot" critic

  • Imagery exercises to feel safe and cared for

  • Understanding the difference between self-compassion and self-pity

What CFT Helps With:

  • High levels of shame and self-criticism

  • Trauma-related guilt and self-blame

  • Anxiety and panic disorders

  • Depression and low self-worth

  • Eating disorders and body image issues

  • Perfectionism and fear of failure

  • Difficulty accepting care from others

  • Anger and irritability

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